Not all misconceptions worth proving

NOT ALL MISCONCEPTIONS WORTH PROVING

Written by Oluwatosin Animasahun

On my write up today, I want to address the men of integrity out there, the women with a large heart, those who build interpersonal relationship with love, commitment and passion, those who engage in the purity of the heart in their dealing with humanity, those who derive their strengths from nurturing the bonds they have with loved ones.

I have recently come to discover that the greatest weakness that can ever befall a man of integrity is the misconception of his true love for his loved ones. She's not always at a state of rest whenever her true sense of concern is misinterpreted into selfishness and hatred.

Here is this story of two perfect friends, Justina and Margret who find themselves on a road they have never walked before.  They love to hold each other's hand while walking but they were deprived of this act by this very road because it is tiny in nature. They were left with no choice than to walk in a vertical method which they are not used to.

Suddenly, Justina who is at the front came across a deep pit unaware then looked back immediately to tell her friend Margret about it. The moment she looked back, she saw Margret's hand raised as if she wanted to push her into the pit. She was disappointed with the surprise and concluded that her friend is never what she thought she has been. 

But she did not know that her friend had seen the pit from behind before her, and wanted to hold her back before she slip into the pit. Margret thought Justina might have fallen inside before she finish telling her about it, so she thought holding her back will be the best method to save her. What a Coincidence!

Dear reader, everyone with a good heart will find themselves in the position of Margret at a certain point of their life, including you, where you will feel restless seeing your loved ones having a misconception about you. A misconception that is very difficult to prove due to the position and angle you were caught in at the site of action.

A lot of people have because of this gave themselves to compromising their belief system all because they wanted to show that they never meant it that way.

When you find yourself in a situation as this, continue being you and keep your integrity intact.

However, Do not stop helping people because your reactants are not appreciated while your product is yet to be seen. In due time, your loved ones who had a misconception about you will trace back your light to you. And if they could discover it back by themselves, they will never ever doubt you again. This is true!

If in any way, you have felt disappointed in a friend for cutting you at the back, look out for them (unaware; do it while they don't know) and try reinvestigating on the excuse they were trying to give you. The excuse may turn out to be real. If it's real, good for them, and if it's not real, good for you.

But I want you to know that their integrity, their large heart, their commitment, their true love, their act of service, might be something that will place a value on you someday.

Thanks for reading. God bless you.

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